Monday, January 9, 2012

The "Yeah, But" of Change

My husband walked out this morning without his cell phone. He felt lost. Had to call me on a land line, God forbid, to tell me about it and to tell me where and how he can be reached. Note, I said he had to tell me about not having his cell phone before he thought to tell me of how and where he can be reached.


Isn't it interesting, amazing, shocking how accustomed we are to the ubiquitous mobile phone. It has become a way of life in a few short years. In the past, other major shifts in how we live have taken far longer, sometimes even centuries. All of this to say that change happens faster and faster and we have to do more than just accept or embrace that fact. We must realize that in some instances this will be difficult and in others we will be able to incorporate major, fast changes into our lives without a hitch. Yeah but, you might say, "yeah but," there will be other changes that will take longer and may be even excruciating for us to acknowledge, much less incorporate into our being.


This wasn't intended to be a generation gap musing, however, it is important to note here, that the young'uns are now hardwired to fast moving technology and will embrace, expect and even demand rapid changes in that field. Does that mean they will do the same in any and all changes in their lives? The jury is out on that so I can only expostulate my opinion not based on any studies, research or facts.


There will always be resistance to change in one way or another. It has nothing to do with the rapidity of it only to the truism that we are human beings and how we accept change depends upon the purpose of the change and our involvement in making it happen.


You fill in the blanks from here. How do you bring about fast changes so they are embraced? How do you accept and make the most of necessary changes that are contrary to your way of thinking and doing? Answer these two questions with words that provide the solutions to these two questions for humankind and you've accomplished what millions have set out to do for centuries: You've built a better mousetrap!

Friday, January 6, 2012

First Friday of 2012

What's to say about the first Friday of the year. It's the same as almost any other Friday. It's the sixth day of the month. Every month has the sixth day. Every year has a first Friday. So there!


On this first Friday of 2012, the big question is, "Have you already broken any, or all, of your New Year's Resolutions?" Maybe you haven't. Only because you didn't make any.


I made some New Year's non-resolutions. That way I know I'll stick to them. Can't wait to enjoy the fruit of my non-resolutions. They are going to be awesome!


Every new year has to start with some freshness. It's appears to me that every new year presents the opportunity for a fresh slate. This year, it brings a time to look at where you want to be in 366 days. Yes, this year is a leap year so we have one more day, 24 more hours, et cetera, et cetera, etcetera, to accomplish magnificent things. To accomplish greatness! To become the person you truly want to be. To finish one or more items on your bucket list. To make that first or that next million. Twenty-four more hours, that's two more hours each month!


What can you do in two more hours?


I can coach a client to greatness. In two hours, I can write a blog. In two hours, I can meet with women preparing them for the launch of a new WOVI Chapter. In two hours, I can present one heckuva a motivational speech at which I have people, laughing, clapping and begging, yes, begging, for more. In two hours, I can write a chapter of one of my books. Which one? Any one of the several.


Here's to the First Friday of 2012!