Random Acts of Optimism OR RAO came to me without any thought or idea about how to describe it nor what I will write about it. I just liked the sound of it. Now, that's optimism! Start with a positive, commit to it, run with it and finish it! So here are the results!
What do you imagine random acts of optimism to be?
Could one come at a time when you are down in the dumps for whatever reason and all of sudden you pull yourself out of it and make a positive statement counter to your negative thoughts that rocks your world? It can happen.
How about hearing a friend or coworker say something negative and pessimistic about themselves. You counteract with a positive compliment that knocks their socks off. The compliment has to be deserved, real and believable. Caution: Credibility is at stake here. Do practice this at home.
Another opportunity to display a random act of optimism is offering a positive comment to someone with whom you only have a casual interaction.
As a vulnerable, young teenager I was on the receiving end of such a random act of optimism. That interaction remains vividly in my memories. I can still see the woman and the scene. She was someone I hardly knew. Out of the blue, or so it seemed to me, she said, "You have the look of determination in your eyes." I believe that chance encounter nurtured my strong tenacity, my persistence and my never give up attitude that has continued to grow ever since.
Practice offering positive, optimistic comments to the people with whom you work, where you shop and most importantly with your family and friends. Keep it going. There are no boundaries, no limitations.
Recently I had an opportunity to "rub elbows" with a billionaire. This man, a humble man with a powerful vision, motivates me in many ways. I shared with him how much I admire and appreciate his vision, his generosity and his servant leadership. He smiled warmly and humbly and thanked me. I believe the impact was positive.
Who are you going to share a random act of optimism with today? Think about it! Do more than think about it. Do it!!
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